Everyone has encountered a Debby Downer Dream-Smasher or, in some cases, may have even been the Debby. I say “give it a rest!”
Some people can’t stand to see others happy. We can’t help that they’re unhappy with themselves and have to inflict that negative energy onto everyone that crosses their path, but we can avoid being affected by it by doing a few simple things.
1. Surround yourself with positive energy and people. By doing this you’ll have your attention so wrapped up i the good things that you have going on that you won’t have time to pay attention to who’s trying to sneak their way in to crush your fabulous dreams and aspirations.
2. Stop telling everyone your next move. It’s okay to be happy about the good things that you have going for you, but sometimes it’s also okay to keep your business to yourself. The Haters can’t stifle what they don’t know is even going on. Don’t give them fuel to spread the negativity.
3. Believe in your Dreams so much so that people can’t distort the image you have of your success. Don’t let anyone take away from you the work that you’ve done to cultivate your dreams into a reality of prosperity. Just focus on being great.
Let’s face it, some people just can’t stand to see people be happy, and that’s okay, but we don’t have to let them rain on our parade with bitter words and negative talk. Simply ignore them and keep it moving forward toward your goals.